Frequently Asked Questions
Understand what membership provides, how private reservations work and where the responsibilities of BDSM Guide, members and third party providers begin and end.
Can you arrange a submissive, dominant or escort?
No. BDSM Guide never provides or arranges submissives, dominants, escorts, sexual partners or other participants. Membership gives approved adults access to private rooms and the specific optional services listed on this website.
How long is a private room booking?
A standard private reservation lasts three hours and includes arrival, the scene, aftercare and packing personal belongings. Guests then have 10 minutes to leave before the room is released to the cleaning team. Consecutive slots form one continuous reservation, so the departure window begins after the final slot.
Are rooms cleaned between every visit?
Yes. Every room receives a professional manual turnover, surface cleaning and disinfection after each reservation. The unoccupied room then receives an additional controlled UV C cycle before it returns to service.
Can I order an equipment set for my session?
Yes. Choose one or more prepared equipment cases when arranging the reservation. Every confirmed case is inspected, sealed and placed in the room before arrival. Availability depends on the selected location and date.
Can I bring my own equipment?
Yes. Personal equipment remains your responsibility and must leave with you after the reservation. Fixed furniture, safety fittings and installed equipment must be used as intended and may not be moved or altered without prior approval.
Does the BDSM sex coach participate in the scene?
No. The coach remains an adviser and observer throughout. They can support preparation, communication, equipment checks and safer decision making, but they never join the activity, touch participants as part of the scene or take a sexual role.
Can a private session be streamed or recorded?
Private live streaming is available only at locations marked with the Camera amenity and requires explicit consent from every visible participant. BDSM Guide does not store footage. Recording, screenshots or redistribution require separate agreement from everyone involved.
What information is visible publicly?
Public pages show only the destination, district and available amenities. Exact availability, access instructions and reservation details are shared through the private membership process.
Is a BDSM World Tour included with membership?
No. Membership provides access to request private rooms and member services. A bespoke world tour itinerary is a separately scoped concierge service. Planning fees, travel, accommodation and third party charges are quoted individually before any reservation is made.
Does membership guarantee a specific location or date?
No. Every location, service and event remains subject to availability, local requirements and the applicable house rules. Our team confirms the complete scope and price privately before a request becomes a reservation.
How is a membership application handled?
Every application is reviewed individually. The public form does not collect payment. Membership level, current availability, applicable terms and the next step are confirmed privately before acceptance.